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Finding Contentedness
Are you content with life? If you’ve been reading our posts, you may know that my pregnancy has been a hot mess the last few months. God has blessed me with the test of a lifetime: terrible prognosis after terrible prognosis for my baby.
It went from “she probably won’t make it” to “we’re very sure she has down syndrome.” Then “she has a heart defect, but we don’t know how severe it is” to “she most definitely has downs, and a huge hole in the middle of her heart that will need surgery.”
What a roller coaster.
And if the definition of godliness is conforming to the character of God (in regards to our thoughts, feelings, actions, desires) I can tell you that this “godliness with contentment” is hard when things are NOT going as we have planned.

Season of Waiting With God
So, be faithful. Hear that God has a will for you and it’s better than anything you could ever imagine. And while you think you know what’s best, the best thing you can do in this season of waiting is just wait with Him. Take this time to remember the joy that we are allotted in a way non-believers aren’t, and then use this time to show that joy to them. Be a light, even in what could possibly be a very dark time for you yourself. I pray that you have that opportunity, to realize just how much you need God, and the stillness that we can only have through Him.

The Importance of Fasting
So, how do we fast? First, you pray about it. From there, you decide how long, and what you’ll be doing during the fast. Whether it’s reading through certain scriptures, praying for longer intervals, or doing a specific study through the Bible.
But, an important note is that this isn’t something to brag about. Matthew 6:16-18 tells us that we shouldn’t try to make it obvious so others will notice. We don’t fast for others, only to be closer to God. Isn’t that a common theme? Not for others but for God only.
The importance of fasting comes from realizing our need to be close to God, and seeing this as a tool to do that. Even Jesus fasted after His baptism, to be closer to God for those 40 days before His ministry truly started (Matthew 4:2). Let us know below if you make a regular practice of fasting, or if you want to start!

Importance of Christian Fellowship
Learning to put our trust in people is hard, especially in the world we live in where people will hurt others just because they can. But as Christians, we are given love and joy, peace, and patience, and several other attributes from God that make us the best at living in community. God has blessed us with the ability to share this life, this mission on earth, with others until we finally join Him again. Even when God created all things, the only thing that wasn’t perfect in His eyes was Adam being alone. That’s why He made Eve, Adam’s helper. Why is that important?

Faith Fixes Fear
But not in the way you think.
Some people like to throw around accusations that feeling intense emotions during scary or unpredictable situations isn’t very Christian-like. “Just pray about it, and it’ll all work out for those who love Him!” “God doesn’t give more to you than you can handle!” These are kind platitudes but not always Biblical.
I’m here to tell you that those intense feelings are completely in line with being a Christian, and perfectly acceptable so long as we remember our place with God.

What is the Armor of God?
The phrase “put on the armor of God” has always seemed odd to me. How do I put these things on? Truth, righteousness, readiness and peace, faith, salvation, and spirit. These don’t exactly go on in the same way a sundress or a bra do.
But, when we look at this scripture passage as a habit building to-do list instead, I think we start to see what Paul means.

Patience, Kindness, Goodness
All in all, the fruits of the spirit are beautiful gifts that we have access to, if we are born again and take the time to rely on God for it. The Spirit is faithful to supply, so long as we go to Him.
So, the next time you think about patience as this thing we don’t pray for so that God doesn’t test us, remember that you already have it. You also already have the perfect example to pull from.
I want to challenge you all to see the fruits of the Spirit as the biggest gift we have, just after salvation. It’s our ability to know God and to model our life after Him. It isn’t something to take for granted.

Moving Past Conflict
Alright, ladies! We’ve spent a few weeks discussing conflict and how to interact with others in a Godly way.
At this point we’re at the end of conflict, and things are either tied up nicely, or still a mess. How do we proceed after that?
If we flip to Matthew 18 (specifically a CSB version), we’ll see that verses 15-20 are titled Restoring a Brother. That’s our goal. By interacting with people in a way that prevents conflict, changing our hearts and intents as we work through the conflict, and now as we proceed after the conflict. Our goal is to restore our brothers and sisters. Our goal is unity.

Working Through Conflict
Conflict isn’t easy to navigate, and truly we can only control the way we respond to it. But if we seek conflict resolution with compassion, and prioritize a loving approach with our communication, we can do our part in resolving any situation we find ourselves in.

How to Work to Prevent Conflict
Instead of completely avoiding conflict, there is a verse that comes to mind that teaches us how to avoid conflict on our end of things. We can’t completely avoid it, but when we shape our actions in a way that glorifies God, we can minimize the amount of times conflict happens.

How to Deal with Church Hurt
Church isn’t for perfect people. Everyone attending church, whether they are actively surrendering their lives to God or not, are completely imperfect. They are sinners. That’s the whole foundation of our faith, right? I’m a sinner, I need Jesus so that I can have a relationship with God. It’s funny how easy it is to forget that fact when hurt happens. Someone is mean or a leader makes a poor decision, and our hackles are up!

What is the Lord’s Prayer?
Matthew 6 is a solid chapter that I am slowly but surely working on memorizing in its entirety. It covers a lot of things from giving, to prayer, to fasting. Jesus even covers anxiety in this chapter! Jesus also covers prayer in two ways: he talks about how we should do it with our actions, and an actual example to follow. How convenient! Jesus is literally like “Y’all aren’t great at talking to my dad, so here’s a dummy proof way.”

Prayers of Petition and Prayers of Intercession
I want to say that DeeDee has done a LOVELY job talking about prayer, and I’m going to chime in with the two types of prayer that we can easily incorporate with our own prayer times, and why they’re important!

What is Bible Intake?
God’s Word is the Bible, and it is inerrant, which means that it is without mistakes. Nothing that has been on this Earth, except the Bible and Jesus (Who is also known as the Word of God), are perfect. This means that we can learn God’s Word and trust it completely.

How we can have LOVE this season!
As we finish up this advent season, finding Christmas just four days away, we want to spend some time thinking about love in regards to Jesus Christ! A love that was perfectly displayed through Jesus’ birth, life, and sacrifice.

How we can have PEACE this season!
Jesus came to make us complete before God; not stained in our sin. We can have PEACE in this truth, as well as others as we wait for Jesus’ Second Coming.

Gratitude is not Circumstantial
It’s so easy for me to list all of the things I love, all of the things I am thankful for. My husband and son, my chosen family, my house and paid-off-car. God has provided so many things for my family and I.
But I never once thanked God for being God.
It’s so easy to thank God for all of the things He does for us; all of the things that He has given us. Even James states that all good and perfect things that we have are from Him.

Three Ways To Memorize Scripture
“I have treasured your word in my heart so that I may not sin against you.” Psalm 119:11 CSB - Ironically, this is the very first scripture that I memorized! I needed to know why I should memorize scripture, and here it is: If you don’t want to sin all the time, memorize scripture so that you know right from wrong.

Lies we believe about the church
Let’s talk about the lies that are surrounding the church. You know the ones I mean: all Christians are judgmental. I don’t have to go to church to be a Christian. And then, my personal favorite, I have to get myself right before I come to church.

Beatitudes Part 2
As we talked about in the last post, the beatitudes are a portion of the “Sermon on the Mount” which is found in Matthew chapters 5-7. These ethics that Jesus is calling us to live out are impossible to achieve on our own, but they show us our need for God’s grace and mercy, and force us to lean into the Holy Spirit as we’re tested.
God's design is perfect, and it remains unchanging and purposeful. Today we’ll dive into what God’s design is for men and women serving in the church. He created us all to complement each other in the home, church, and ministry.